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The Rev. Bill Sinkford reacts to this week’s shooting in the Canadian Parliament.
I . . . heard the MP’s speak about yesterday’s attack and renew their commitment to preserve an open society. An open society? How long has it been since you could describe ours as an open society? . . .
At what sacrifice in personal privacy can safety from such attackers be purchased, if at all?
Is this the new normal, not just in Washington but throughout the world? (Rev. Sinkford’s Blog, October 23)A season of letting go
Catherine Clarenbach writes about autumn as a season of relinquishment—and shares a personal story of grieving the loss of her father.
[Relinquishment] is not the same as giving up. Rather, we are making space as the leaf does, as the squash vine does, as the wind itself does. We can choose the manner of our relinquishments—not always, but sometimes. Sometimes we will resist with everything we have—denial, anger, bargaining—and sometimes it takes a while for our hands to stop trying to grasp so hard what is already gone. (The Way of the River, October 20)
The Rev. Dr. David Breeden celebrates the “sloppy wet kiss of here and now.”
from last year
that glow. Yet it
is here and only
here, this fall
only falls here. (Theopoetics, October 22)
The Rev. Jude Geiger sees a common thread tying together ISIS, Ebola, and immigration.
I think the fear around ISIS (a Middle Eastern horror) and Ebola (a West African horror) and our Mexican border (where human beings are trying to work, migrate and find better homes for their children) is not about ISIS and Ebola, it’s about racism. We can’t argue against immigration reform with integrity, because most of us are descendants of immigrants from the past 100 years, so we need to come up with another way to keep Americans from trusting our neighbors from the South. (HuffPo Religion, October 21)
Doug Muder lists seven liberal lessons of Ebola, beginning with this:
Ebola points out why we need government. Libertarian rhetoric about sovereign individuals has a lot of superficial charm. But biology knows nothing about that; humanity is a species, and sometimes we have to act as a species. We do this through government. (The Weekly Sift, October 20)Reading the Hebrew Scriptures
The Rev. Dr. Carl Gregg explores “the ways Christians have often appropriated Jewish scripture in a way that does not fully appreciate the ways that Jews understand their own texts in very differently.”
The conservative Christian tradition of my childhood taught me, when I read a passage in which a Gospel writer quoted a passage from the Hebrew prophets, that I should think, “Isn’t it amazing how that ancient prophecy predicted details about Jesus’ ministry?” But the more I explore the original context of the Hebrew prophets, the more I think that Isaiah would be dumbfounded by Matthew’s interpretation of his words.
So, how do we read the Bible more responsibly in light of this awareness? (Pluralism, Pragmatism, Progressivism, October 23)
The Rev. Tamara Lebak discovers that Leviticus mentions the Golden Rule twice—once as “love your neighbor,” and once as “love the stranger.”
In lifting up both neighbor and stranger, Leviticus seems to be lifting up that you cannot simply stop the conversation with those like you and pushes us to think about how we have indeed been strangers ourselves. (Under the Collar in Oklahoma, October 22)Congregational life
The Rev. Dan Harper’s congregation is experiencing an increase in attendance—with a resulting increase in conflict, and in demands for time, energy, and space.
If you are wishing for your congregation to grow, remember that growth injects stress into the institution. In the short term, it is much easier and more pleasant to stay the same size, even if it does mean chasing lots of newcomers away. Only a fool, or someone committed to making the utopian ideals of liberal religion accessible to all who want them, would seek congregational growth. (Yet Another Unitarian Universalist, October 19)
Harper also writes a series of posts about participating in UNCO 14 West (“an unconference for church leaders, pastors, families, and seminarians”). (Yet Another Unitarian Universalist, October 20)
The Rev. Dawn Cooley considers ways to remove barriers to participation in UUA governance.
I believe that we need a robust Unitarian Universalist Association that can serve stakeholders that may or may not belong to a congregation. A UUA where all who meet certain “citizenship” requirements are able to participate, whether or not they are affiliated with a congregation. We have more free-range Unitarian Universalists than we do congregation members. Many of these folks were raised in our congregations. Might we want to allow them to have a say in the future of our faith tradition? (Speaking of, October 21)
The Rev. Adam Tierney Eliot writes about the rhythms of preaching—and the reality of dry spells.
For a good preaching ministry there must be a steady pattern of “study . . . preach . . . study again . . . preach again” that runs in the background seven days a week. When this stream is flowing steadily and well, worship is invested with the spirit and has spirit in the moment. If not, then the process is more like a person looking for the car key. There is a lot of wandering, swearing, self-doubt, and foolish relief at its final discovery. (The Burbania Posts, October 17)
Sudbury UUs honor indigenous peoples
First Parish of Sudbury, Mass., joined in the effort to change the focus of the Columbus Day holiday to recognize the culture and contributions of Native Americans by celebrating “Indigenous Peoples’ Day” in their church. Describing Christopher Columbus as a man who exemplified “the worst of what human kind has to offer,” the Rev. Dr. Marjorie Matty said in her sermon, “Some traditions are just not worth carrying forward.” (MetroWest Daily News – 10.13.14)
UU church offering free wedding ceremonies for same-sex couples
In the wake of the recent Supreme Court ruling that ended the ban on same-sex marriage in some states, Olympia Brown UU Church minister the Rev. Tony Larsen will be performing free wedding ceremonies for same-sex couples at the Racine, Wisc., church over the next few weeks. Larsen and his longtime partner were the first couple to receive a marriage license in Racine County. (Journal-Times – 10.14.14)
Related stories include:
Lesbian ministers declare victory (MyFoxOrlando.com – 10.14.14 )
Same-sex marriages continue in Wake Co. after ruling (WNCN.com – 10.11.14)
Church leaders address legalization of same-sex marriage (Time-Warner News – 10.12.14)
Eau Claire lesbian couple led relentless fight for marriage equality in Wis. (Leader-Telegram – 10.12.14)
South Fork UUs celebrate 30 years
The Unitarian Universalist Congregation of the South Fork in Bridgehampton, N.Y., will celebrate its 30th anniversary by holding a special “homecoming” service. (Sag Harbor Express – 10.15.14)
Pennsylvania UUs gather in interfaith solidarity
In response to a seminar titled “Islam, Christianity: The Coming Conflict,” an interfaith group of Unitarians, Jews, Christians, Pagans, Muslims, and atheists gathered in Sunbury, Pa., to showcase the peaceful relationships amongst the various groups. “We wanted to organize this interfaith grouping tonight because we believe in putting love out in the world,” said UU Congregation of the Susquehanna Valley minister the Rev. Ann Keeler Evans. (The Daily Item – 10.10.14)
Rallying for reproductive justice in North Dakota
A November ballot initiative in North Dakota that seeks to protect existing laws regulating abortion has come under scrutiny from local groups and faith communities. With the potential to prevent judicial activism that could grant the right to unlimited abortion in the future, the initiative also raises concerns with members of Bismarck-Mandan Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. (Bismark Tribune – 10.11.14)
Virginia’s first same-sex wedding performed by UU minister
Thirty U.S. states now have marriage equality following the Supreme Court’s decision earlier this week to refuse to hear appeals from five states seeking to prohibit same-sex marriage. The Rev. Linda Olson Peebles of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Arlington, Va., was on hand at the Arlington County Courthouse to perform the state’s first same-sex wedding ceremony. “The Commonwealth of Virginia agrees with us that every person has worth and dignity and that love matters no matter what your sexual orientation is,” she said. (ARL Now – 10.6.14)
Related stories include:
Same-sex couples begin to marry in Virginia (Washington Post – 10.6.14)
Supreme Court’s decision on Indiana’s same-sex marriage ban kills opposition for “foreseeable future” (Elkhart Truth – 10.6.14)
Falls Church couple seizes the moment after Virginia allows same-sex marriages (Washington Post – 10.6.14)
GOP legislative leaders ask to intervene in NC gay marriage cases (WRAL.com – 10.9.14)
The Rev. Audette Fulbright Fulson of the UU Church of Cheyenne, Wyo., wrote in to tell us that she and two members of the congregation were featured in two front page stories this week in the Wyoming Tribune Eagle on the state’s continued ban on same-sex marriage. The articles are not easy to access online, but at least one is on the paper’s website. (Wyoming Eagle Tribue – 10.8.13)
UUA HQ designed to foster collaboration
Many modern office buildings now use open concept designs to foster a sense of community at the workplace and create more opportunities for inter-office collaboration. The Boston Globe looks at the UUA’s new headquarters and other office spaces designed with that mindset. (Boston Globe – 10.8.14)
Michigan UUs collect shoes for charity
Contributing to the national nonprofit organization, Soles4Souls, New Hope Unitarian Universalist congregation members in New Hudson, Mich., have worked to organize shoe drives in their community, and have collected more than 800 pairs of shoes over the last three years. (hometownlife.com – 10.6.14)
Texas church celebrates 60th anniversary
Celebrating their 60th anniversary as a congregation, the Unitarian Universalist Church of Midland, Tex., and the Rev. Thomas Schmidt are taking advantage by welcoming community members to come and learn more about Unitarian Universalism, and to dispel any misconceptions about the faith. (Midland Reporter Telegram – 10.9.14)
Kenny Wiley, who is both UU and black, wonders if his UU community cares more about remembering Selma than engaging in Ferguson.
Unitarian Universalists, you are my people. And UUs, my ‘other’ people—of which some of you are—need you. We need you to show up. We need you to listen and go beyond platitudes. Not everyone can travel hundreds of miles, but we can all do something—something beyond what we thought we could do. Oct. 22 is National Day Against Police Brutality, and several cities are hosting events.
The next call to action for racial justice has arrived. My people: Will we answer?
My people want to know. (A Full Day, October 15)
The Rev. Tom Schade explores the reasons why there has been no national UU call to Ferguson, and proposes more grassroots, local-driven engagement.
The tragedy is that each of those 59 congregations within 250 miles of Ferguson had some people who wanted to go Ferguson, but didn’t hear the invitation, or feel encouraged by their local congregational leaders and minister. And even more tragic, in each of those 59 communities and cities, there were many more people who wanted to go to Ferguson, but were not connected with anyone, any group, who could help them make that happen.
We need to get to the next stage. We don’t need to count how many UU’s turn out for events like Ferguson, or Raleigh, or New York, or Arizona. We need to start to count how many non-UU’s we bring with us. (The Lively Tradition, October 15)
The St. Louis-area UU congregations are organizing their responses through the St. Louis Standing on the Side of Love Facebook page.Faithful relationships
In a widely-shared post, the Rev. Dr. Victoria Weinstein responds to the news that the new president of Andover Newton Theological School admitted to a four-year affair.
I am first and foremost personally concerned about covenantal relationships –marriage being the most important one in this situation. It concerns me that my alma mater’s president should have violated the covenant of marriage for a long period of time, and that he and the board of trustees ask our forgiveness for that violation. (PeaceBang, October 4; published in modified form at The Narthex, October 6; quoted in the Boston Globe, October 12)
Liz James writes a searingly honest post about her own struggles with marital fidelity, and concludes that relationships need better tools and supports.
If we care about these stories, if we truly see pain and harm caused by this pattern, and we want to prevent it, we will not frame this conversation solely in terms of what this guy did wrong (not that there isn’t a place for this conversation, but that place sure isn’t my blog). We will ask what better support and context we can provide people as a community to support them in building relationships that are loving, sustainable, honest, and rewarding. We will talk real stories and real life.
Because this matters WAY too much to waste time getting judgemental when we could be getting creative and wise. (Rebel With a Label Maker, October 16)The stories of our lives
Recovering from a migraine, the Rev. Cynthia Cain boards an airplane, and her seatmate’s drunkenness triggers memories of family dysfunction; after her first feelings of anger, she finds her way to compassion.
I looked at Mr. Reeking of Alcohol, and his one eye was completely bloodshot, and I felt so much sadness and compassion for him. I knew that like some people very close to me he was trapped in a place he could not get out of and didn’t need my scorn and anger.
So when he suggested I relax, instead of launching into aforementioned rant, I smiled at him.
“I’m trying, bro.” I said. (A Jersey Girl in Kentucky, October 14)
Karen Johnston urges a mourner to “forget pious blessing chatter.”
Forget pious blessing chatter.
The nice-nice that assures polite company
the world still spins properly.
It’s off kilter.
Your son is gone.
All is not right
in the world. (irrevspeckay, October 15)
The Rev. Dr. Cynthia Landrum pushes back against oversimplification in how schools react to students’ infractions.
We need to, as a society, rethink “zero tolerance” and “three strikes” laws. We need to rethink them when it comes to our prisons, but we also need to rethink them when it comes to our schools, and we need to stop treating children like criminals. We need to give the schools the ability to look at the situation and look at the individual child, to think about what’s best for the school and what’s best for the child.
In liberal religion, we often talk about how much we value education. It’s time for us to recognize that this is a major way in which some children are not getting the same access to education that others are, and work to make a change. (The Lively Tradition, October 14)
Doug Muder writes that the real problem with Sam Harris and Bill Maher, and their comments about Islam, is “Orientalism,” fencing off a group of people, and then presuming to be an expert about their lives.
The reason to pause before you criticize Islam or religion isn’t that these topics are or should be surrounded by some special aura of protection. It’s that there’s really no such thing as Islam or religion, at least not in the sense that most critics would like to assume. (The Weekly Sift, October 13)
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